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Vivien Lim

Studying in SIM, Bachelor in Business Marketing

12 Sept 88

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Monday, 1/16/2006 12:32:00 AM, Stop Complaining and move on!


YUP!That's right!To those who always complain stop it.Dont make it a habit.How does complaining starts?When we start criticising about others and saying they are rude, impolite,etc.The list may go on...cos there's a tendency to expect others to be like what u want.But it's impossible due to personality and perception differences.
Dont whine abt things like the salesgirl is rude.Why dont u take over her place and see how it feels like?I dont mean that i encourage this kind of service either.Tell the person nicely with love to change her behaviour if there's a need to.Do something about it,not complain!There's no use in complaining.Always ask urself,can u do a better job?If u think u can, then go for it!Dont whine abt people!If u are not up to it, why criticise abt others?If u are up to it, then help the person.It will not benefit anyone by compplaining.It will only hurt the other party's ears by ur rantings and soon ur friends will dread to be with u.Who wants to be with a negative person,who goes around spoiling their mood?Stop it or u will see ur friends drifting far from u soon.Dont behave like an old grandmother or grandfather if u are not.Complaining will spoil ur day and mood.Choose to give compliments and try to improve the situation instead!
It was complaining that the children of Israel lost their inheritance.Time and time again they tested God.Complaining why had God brought them out of Egypt to suffer when they were travelling to the Promised Land.God has made us and He definitely wont starve us.why worry and complain?It's redundant.They assumed that God would starve them and they complained.They asked God to rain manna down from heaven for them to eat and God really did that!Dont complain,persevere and u will see results. Perseverance brings about character.
No man can tame the tongue.With it we bless our God, and with it we curse men, who have been made in similitude of God.OUt of the same mouth proceed blessing and cursing.These ought not to be so!Does a spring send forth fresh water and bitter from the same opening?Can a fig tree bear olives ot a grapevine bear figs?Of Course not!No spring yields both salt water and fresh.So what do u want ur mouth to do this day?Control it or else it will harm your future.Negative words cant bet taken back once they are said.choose it!